Something can be disgusting and still be liked.

[Don't be hypocritical, Dabi. You call Shigaraki disgusting and seem to like him well enough to suck his dick.]

Well it wasn't an order. How many times do I have to tell you what goes on here stays here? [Implying that there's a separate world beyond Shigaraki's bedroom. That outside the doors- there would be orders but inside these doors?]

Are you leaving?